See What 50 Years Will Do
From my perspective as a 72 yr-old, I find this attached discussion humorous...as well as sad. Can our lives have changed SOOOOOO MUCH in my lifetime?
I got whippings from my father using his belt, or a switch broken off in the yard...and promptly defoliated in "sharpening" the weapon for use. It hurt at the time, and was temporarily degrading, but the severity of the punishment was typically understood….sometimes calculated (i.e. risk vs. reward), and always deserved. In later puberty it hurt less, but I yelled anyway...and louder...to lessen the duration.
I do not ever recall using anything to strike my boys other than my open hand, and that usually took the form of grabbing them by the shirt to suspend them in mid-air kicking and screaming. I do not believe our girls ever provoked me enough to physically restrain them.
One time I wrestled with Edward, and pinned him after considerable struggle. It was then I discovered he was going to grow larger than me, so I had best learn more persuasive psychological methods of family discipline. The transition to reason was a defining moment in maturity...for both of us.
Being a good parent may be the toughest and most responsible job on the planet, …..especially for a single mom. Everybody approaches it differently. Just as long as they do not give up trying, that may be the most we can ask for. Yet some fail, and those are tragic. The way that works seems to require an abundance of understanding, patience, …..and limitless love. /s/ LeRoy Collins///////////////////////////////////
See what 50 years will do.
Scenario: Jack pulls into school parking lot with rifle in gun rack.1956 - Vice Principal comes over, takes a look at Jack's rifle, goes to his car and gets his to show Jack.
2006 - School goes into lockdown, FBI called, Jack hauled off to jail and never sees his truck or gun again. Counselors called in for traumatized students and teachers.
Scenario: Johnny and Mark get into a fist fight after school.1956 - Crowd gathers. Mark wins. Johnny and Mark shake hands and end up best friends. Nobody goes to jail, nobody arrested, nobody expelled.
2006 - Police called, SWAT team arrives, arrests Johnny and Mark. Charge them with assault, both expelled even though Johnny started it.
Scenario: Jeffrey won't be still in class, disrupts other students.1956 - Jeffrey sent to office and given a good paddling by Principal. Sits still in class.
2006 - Jeffrey given huge doses of Ritalin. Becomes a zombie. School gets extra money from state because Jeffrey has a disability.
Scenario: Billy breaks a window in his father's car and his Dad gives him a whipping.1956 - Billy is more careful next time, grows up normal, goes to college, and becomes a successful businessman.
2006 - Billy's Dad is arrested for child abuse. Billy removed to foster care and joins a gang. Billy's sister is told by state psychologist that she remembers being abused herself and their Dad goes to prison. Billy's mom has affair with psychologist.
Scenario: Mark gets a headache and takes some headache medicine to school.1956 - Mark shares headache medicine with Principal out on the smoking dock.
2006 - Police called, Mark expelled from school for drug violations. Car searched for drugs and weapons.
Scenario: Pedro fails high school English.1956 - Pedro goes to summer school, passes English, goes to college.
2006 - Pedro's cause is taken up by state legal party. Newspaper articles appear nationally explaining that teaching English as a requirement for graduation is racist. ACLU files class action lawsuit against state school system and Pedro's English teacher. English banned from core curriculum. Pedro given diploma anyway but ends up mowing lawns for a living because he can't speak English.
Scenario: Johnny takes apart leftover firecrackers from the 4th of July, puts them in a model airplane paint bottle, blows up a red ant bed.1956 - Ants die.
2006 - BATF, Homeland Security, FBI called. Johnny charged with domestic terrorism, FBI investigates parents, siblings removed from home, computers confiscated, Johnny's Dad goes on a terror watch list and is never allowed to fly again.
Scenario: Johnny falls while running during recess and scrapes his knee. He is found crying by his teacher, Mary. Mary, hugs him to comfort him.1956 - In a short time Johnny feels better and goes on playing.
2006 - Mary is accused of being a sexual predator and loses her job. She faces 3 years in State Prison.
Is something wrong here????
/s/ LeRoy Collins, Jr.